Ten Ways to Recognize Babies

Growing up is not as easy as most of think, sometimes it takes three years, sometimes twenty to fifty years depending on the resolve of the persons. Babies are very adorable and loveable when they are growing up but adult babies are not so loveable, they are difficult to socialize with. There are ten easy ways to recognize adult babies around us. The difference between babies and baby adults is simple once we learn to recognize what a baby is.

Number one is easy, adult babies are always crying for no reason. In life you meet people who think the world is always at fault and all they ever do is complain and cry. You try to start a conversation and before you are even half way down the conversation they are already complaining. They blame the employer, the partner, the dog, the weather, the car, they try to blame anything and everything as long as they never blame themselves. Such people you will find in families, homes, offices and even in your own mirror looking back at you. They just never take responsibility for anything, all they believe is that the world is not fair and that’s all they think they need to know.

Number two is fascinating because babies are always playing in order to grow but these adult babies play in order to pass time. They never take anything and produce anything; it is considered a miracle when they actually do anything else. They spend day in day out making new year resolutions but come end of the year they achieve nothing if anything they actually get worse. They will tell you that this time around they are going to change but they never do. If you leave them today tomorrow they will still be in the same place still playing with their lives away. Unlike real babies, these adult babies play their lives away and realize when it is too late that they have wasted their time playing. Such people you should be careful what kind of responsibility to give them because they are just always playing.

Number three has to do with awareness of what is happening beyond the playground. Babies usually have no idea what is going on beyond their playground. These types of grown up babies have no idea what is going on with politics, economics and just the social happenings around them. All they think is that everything is ok and they expect other people to know. They can cross the street without even worrying about what is happening around them ; these type of people will change careers without ever knowing what they really want. They are the type of people who hear the news but cannot plan based on what is happening around the country. They always think someone is going to save them and take care of them. They never realize that it is also up to them.

The fourth thing is sometimes the most irritating, adult babies just do not listen. You tell them once or twice and they still go on to repeat the same thing. These type of babies you tell them not to play with fire and they still go on to play with fire, they prefer learning from the experience. These type of adult babies you can warn them about their future, life, careers, friends, habits and whatsoever that concerns them but they will still repeat the same mistakes and involve themselves with the same problems. Sometimes there is nothing you can do except to be there when problems happen but it will cause you much pain. If you adopt adult babies then you must be prepared to be continuously disappointed.

The fifth thing is that adult babies are sometimes just have no idea what they want. They can wake up today with a mood which you may not understand and will just be irritable. You can try as much as possible to console or understand them but they just get quite emotional and all you can do is watch or you can try to help, usually the helping does not help so you let them cry. These type of adult babies are dangerous because they can be so emotional they do all they decisions based on emotions such that they just never think twice about who it will hurt or what they will affect. These babies it is best to stay away from them, you do not them

Babies are beautiful and loveable but adults who do not grow up or take responsibility that is another level of baby and that level is dangerous. Sometimes when people are continuously disappointing you it could probably because you are dealing with a baby and you are not recognizing it.

Winston is the author of several books. His breakthrough book was “You Have All Been Fooled”, a book about power, ability, and sheer determination in life. Winston’s books are available on the following
You Have All Been Fooled at Amazon
You Have All Been Fooled at Author’s Page
Four Reasons Why Absolute World Peace is Impossible With Humans
The Spark of Life, Success and Relationships
The Book of Revelation Series

How Big Is Your Mind

One of the greatest illusions of life is the belief that everything has a volume that it can fit into. So we judge the size of anything according to what it fits into. We tend to measure everything in life such that we then feel comfortable because we believe being able to measure something is intelligence yet the mind is so much bigger than a simple measurement.

The brain of any species fits into the head, but that does not mean the mind must fit into that also. The term thinking out of the box tries to encourage people to go beyond the normal solutions and come up with new things. Most of us tend to think that life’s solutions are based on what we see and what we believe, but we never dare to come up with new things because our minds are simple the size of our heads. So a person who finishes college goes to create their resume, a person who is born in a family of dancers believes dancing is the only way to make money, children who come from a long tradition of restaurant owners can only imagine restaurants in their lives. At the end of the day people never really think of going outside the box, finding new careers, starting new businesses, branching out and expanding their activities.

The mind is such an amazing thing because it does not have an end; we are the ones who set the limits. We set boundaries in which we decide who we should live with, where we should stay, what jobs we are able to do and all that yet the mind has a universal potential. A simple example in order to understand the power of the mind is to understand imagination. When you close your eyes you can imagine anything and you can be anywhere, you can go anywhere you want and you can do anything that you want. What we fail to realize is that our imagination is the foundation of reality and that the limitations of the physical world are just an illusion. Instead of accepting the idea that we have and the possibilities we think up we tend to believe the illusion of the physical reality that things are impossible. The universe is a reality which we cannot see with our natural eyes because it is too big yet if you close your eyes and imagine the universe you can see all of it inside your mind. If you just close your eyes you can see all the stars, the moons, the space and the planets all inside your mind. Your mind is the foundation of reality that holds the possibilities of life in your grasp; all you have to do is believe and act.

If you think according to the limitations of your head you will always think according to the immediate because that is what your body sees. Your body only sees what is in front of you, it only touches what is close to it and it only feels what is near to it. If you only think within the context of your head you will only be able to make money according to the illusion of what you see is what you get which is a great lie. On the other hand if you embrace your mind as a universal place where anything is possible you will achieve greatness, you will create new things, start new businesses and live a better life. You will not be constrained by what the world tells you but you will believe according to what is within the possibilities of the universe.

A person whose mind is in the context of the universe has a greater vision of life. They create tomorrow today and live success before it even dwells on others. This is why others create products which the whole world is still using and create lifestyles that everyone follows all because they see in the context of the universe. So you can decide to either live according to the smallness of your head or you can live according to the greatness of the universe, after all there is a heaven and an earth, which is how the world started.

Winston is the author of several books. His breakthrough book was “You Have All Been Fooled”, a book about power, ability, and sheer determination in life. Winston’s books are available on the following
You Have All Been Fooled at Amazon
You Have All Been Fooled at Author’s Page
Four Reasons Why Absolute World Peace is Impossible With Humans
The Spark of Life, Success and Relationships
The Book of Revelation Series