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Jane’s Love Apples

April 30, 2010 2 comments

Ever tried growing apples in a desert or sowing love in a person and getting the wrong fruit all together. Like it or not we all have things that make us tick. We have dreams and hope because these are the things we like. We have desires and Jane is no different.  Once in her travels she was given two apple seeds to grow. These seeds were special in that if you grow them and applied love the benefits, well, you would never be hungry again. As she walked in her travels she had to pass through a desert. The desert stretched for miles and miles so it seemed but on the horizon she could see good farming land. As you would have it she grew hungry and hungrier as she traveled, so she thought to herself, “let me grow one of the magic seeds. I will tend to it and give it lots of tender love and care. I will make the most beautiful garden out of it, and because of that I will settle here for a while or maybe for ever.” So she set out to prepare the garden with lots of expectation. She worked the whole day but the seed just would not sprout, after all magic seeds grow into a tree after one day. So she thought maybe she was doing it wrongly so she spent the whole night awake creating all these fancy ridges and contours around the seed garden, but still the seed would not sprout into the tree. So she thought maybe it’s the lack of water so she decided to cry in order for her to use her tears to make the seed sprout but it just would not sprout. She was now so hungry and desperate, what could she do.

Looking into the horizon she thought to herself, “It’s not so far, if I just strengthen myself for a while I can get there. There at least I know there is good land waiting for my seed and I can grow my garden and be fed.” She packed her things and off she went. Amazingly she got there and she still had enough strength left after all that crying. She put her last seed into the ground and gave it good tender care just as she had given the other seed in the desert. In not time at all the seed sprouted and the more she spent a minute with it the more it grew. Soon it was a tree and apples were coming out of it. “Whal she thought”, all I had to do was persevere for a few days and I would have planted two seeds instead of one.

Such is life, sometimes we settle for areas and people who are not the ideal for our seeds. We all have something to give in life but we need to find the right place to sow it into. If the seed and the ground are not compatible do not waste your time What you have belongs to a particular place of growth. You maybe in a desert at the moment but your farming land is not too far, do not settle in a desert when Jericho is around the corner. If you are farming in a desert no matter how much effort you put into it you will be frustrated and tired, because your seed will not germinate to what you want. Your Jericho might be a person, business, career or education, just do not give up.

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Chemicals of Love H2O

April 29, 2010 9 comments

It’s not surprising that people can date for seven years and break up or be married for twenty years with children and still have a divorce. The problem is not love it’s a simple case of misunderstanding nature. Flesh of my flesh and bone of my bone is not just a romantic statement but is a statement of chemical proportions. Hold on. In nature there are different substances made from different elements. We have pure elements, chemical substances, chemical compounds and of course mixtures.

The most natural and highest level of relationships have chemical affinity. This is when two elements join together such that the two lose their own properties to form a completely new substance altogether. These elements have a natural attraction such that their very basic atoms are attracted to each other. Let’s call this level, the Adam and Eve Level, because at this stage there is no such thing as dating being required, it is the most natural level. Some people are privileged enough to know this and wait for this moment in time when they can meet their element who is also attracted them. Unfortunately this level is not very common, forming only 7-8 percent of marriages in the whole world.

Some elements on the other hand have no natural affinity and require such intense heat and pressure to combine. In other words these need so much effort and work; hence the term let us work it out in most relationships. Normally they have no attraction between them or the attraction is weak but out of desire to be bonded to something they subject themselves to very high pressures and heat or cold.  Sometimes such chemicals can be highly unstable and volatile. Such relationships contain many compromises on both sides. The relationships can work but needs more effort. Let’s call this level the Jocob and Leah level. These relationships eventually have an attraction between the participating elements but it is never the real reason why they got together there is always another reason bugger than love. Well these are the majority of marriages so let’s give them a seventy percent existence.

Now on the lowest level are the mixtures. These are funny relationship but are very common also. Sometimes they result in marriage, staying together, dating and all that stuff. A mixture is a substance where there is no real chemical bond but just a getting together. The funniest things about mixtures are that they have no real proportions. Sometimes one substance increase more than the other at any time. Mixtures are easy to separate and see because you can still recognize their different elements. It’s like a sugar and water solution. When you mix water and sugar it looks like the sugar has disappeared but all you need to do is taste the solution and you can taste the sugar or water. They are two people who are together but are not one, they still possess their individualities. Mixtures obviously are a waste of time but anyway this is why we date, to mix and mingle and experiment to see if there is any affinity but we never really give of ourselves.

Three people asked me yesterday why they can never have a stable relationship well here is the answer, “the chemistry of love.” If you are in a relationship or marriage, if you really look hard enough (be honest at least) you will see that you fit into any three of these categories. if you are dating and you discover that you are not in 7-8 percent or that your relationship does not fit into the natural affinity level, here is my advice, RUN. If you are having second thoughts and you realize you are not in affinity, RUN. If you discover that you have to put a lot of work into this dating relationship its simple, RUN. If you notice that he or she has a tendency to slide away once there is a little cooling or heat I suggest you RUN.

Now if you are already married and you believe that your marriage is not based on the 7-8 percent level I suggest that you ….., well I cannot spoil PART 2.

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Average.Dull.Uninspired. Lethargic.Trivial-ADULT

April 27, 2010 Leave a comment

I wonder what happened to Johnny? He used to be so much fun. I remember Johnny, he had these fantastic dreams he used to talk about when he was growing up. I remember how he wanted to travel around the world and be in all sort of cities around the world. Oh yeah, then there was all this talk that he used to say about how one day he would build this grand big house for him and his family. Ok, I have to admit we thought he sounded mad but hey that is what made him so different. Johnny, Johnny, now he is such a drag, all he ever talks about is how life is not fair, and how one has to work hard to be anything. Fine I agree one has to work hard but what about working hard at fulfilling your dreams? Now he is so serious and so dull, sometimes I swear he is the first one to shoot down people’s dreams with his talk of reality. I can’t ask for advice from him anymore, because his answers are always the same. He no longer has that sense of romance about life, its like all the life was sucked out of him. Perhaps being an adult just means you are Average, Dull, Uninspired, Lethargic and Trivial

Winston is the author of several books. His breakthrough book was “You Have All Been Fooled”, a book about power, ability, and sheer determination in life. Winston’s books are available on the following
You Have All Been Fooled at Amazon
You Have All Been Fooled at Author’s Page
Four Reasons Why Absolute World Peace is Impossible With Humans
The Spark of Life, Success and Relationships
The Book of Revelation Series

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Jane’s Five portions of Happiness

April 22, 2010 Leave a comment

Once upon a time Jane took a walk into heaven in search of happiness. There she met God who gave her five portions of happiness. Before Jane left back for earth God told her, “You must always keep these portions in a safe place preferably your heart where no one can steal them because they are irreplaceable, but, however you can exchange them for anything you want.” Happy knowing she now had what she wanted, Jane locked her portions of happiness in her heart  and went back to earth.

Whilst walking down the road one day, Jane noticed a beautiful car. It was fast and magnificent to look at. As much as she like it, she knew it was too expensive for her to buy. She consulted the old man, World, who told her “You have the most sought after treasure at home why not trade one portion of it and get the car after all you will still be left with 4 portions”. Soon Jane had her car. She noticed that when she drove very fast, her heart would beat very fast, in the same way she felt when she was holding a portion of happiness in her heart. However as time passed she noticed that the car needed so much service, if she did not drive carefully it could kill her. Sometime the car would just refuse to move or sometimes other careless people would hit the car. She could not protect it in her treasure chest in the same way she could for her other portions of happiness.  

As time went Jane realized she need a steady income to put fuel into her car and maintain it so she consulted that old man again, World, who told her “You still have four other portions why not trade one of them for career”. This sounded like good advice so she traded her portion of happiness for career. Career was good to her, sometime career would reward her with a bonus, promotion and all these benefits she never had before. Down the line in the year she discovered that career was very demanding. Sometime career would demand her spare time such that she could not spend it with her friends, sometimes career would force her to travel very far from her home. As hard as she worked it just seemed career would never be satisfied. Career just wanted more and more. So Jane was now getting more stressed but she  needed career to sustain her trade of happiness found in the car. So then she thought to herself “If career is so demanding I need a place to come home to which takes away my stress. A big place where I have everything I want and once in a while I just sleep and do nothing.” So with her third potion of happiness she traded it for a house.

This she thought was the biggest and best trade of her life. When it rained hard, or the earth got too complicated she would get into her house and just relax there. She could walk in the house whatever time she wanted, she had no rent to pay or anything about a house to stress. She basically could do whatever she wanted. However as time went on she soon noted that house never talked to her. Sure she would talk, sing, dance and sleep in the house but house just never seemed to care. House was just stone faced. Sometimes she would be so excited and she needed to talk to someone but house would never really respond, all house ever did was sit and be stone faced, after all house was made of stone.  Sooner than later, Jane realized that House was just too big. House needed so much attention to keep it clean. It was a lot of work maybe not as demanding as career but more personal. If she did not clean House or take care of it once in a while with a new coat of paint, House would get rusty and could depress her without even saying a word. So Jane was now confused, she had a car, a good career and a good house, things which everyone else wanted but she was not happy at least not all the time. She soon noticed that all these things made her happy at specific times of the day. Career made her happy at the end of the year with a bonus, car made her happy when she was driving on a good road with little traffic, and of course house made her happy when she cleaned it and she was happy. Jane now understood she was in a dilemma so she went to the old man, World, after all World knew it all and could solve her problem. Jane went to World and explained her problem.

World thought deeply and said, “If you look outside you will see that the happiest people are the people who have friends and consistent company, why don’t you trade your fourth portion for a person. Find someone like you who understands your needs, someone who is always there, someone you can talk to whenever you like, someone who can clean themselves and of course someone who does not demand a lot.” This made perfect sense to Jane so she set about her task to find this perfect someone or least near perfect someone. As if by coincidence she met Mr. Right. He was charming and handsome, he would buy her roses at valentines, call her from time to time, though they could not always be together, she could call him at any time and he would be there. Mr. Right always smelled good and looked clean. When they slept together it was way better than the feeling of driving. “Whal”, she thought this is the perfect combination, a house, a car, a career and a man who loves me what else could I want. As time may have it, staying with another person has its moments. Sometimes they would fight a little but they always had solutions, sometimes Mr. Right would be unhappy at work and he would bring this unhappiness to home. But through it all he loved her so much. So Jane always thought to herself, “If I had only known I would have started by getting Mr. Right first”. But as we all know time does pass and people die, so Mr. Right unfortunately was the first to go. But before he died, she found out that he also had been given five portions of happiness. When they met, he, like her, had traded his portion of happiness for her. Instead of being left with one, she now had two in her heart the other being the one from Mr. Right. So at least now she had two portions of happiness left so she went to heaven to talk to God about this. She wanted to know why all the other three portions had not made her happy and the fourth portion at least had worked for a while before Mr. Right died. She was angry though that the fourth portion was unable to keep Mr. Right from dying in a way it seemed like the worst because she could afford to lose, the house, the car, the career but not Mr. Right. She wanted to understand why the other three things had not made her as happy as the Mr. Right even though he died he still made her happy. While Mr. Right was alive she always felt this connection to him. She could not explain it but she felt her heart was joined to him somehow and this made her happy. So God began to explain

“Happiness is never meant to be kept in a locked box.  Happiness can be traded but you must be careful what you trade it for. When you trade happiness, you must receive happiness. It is irreplaceable, so when you trade happiness you must in turn receive happiness also. It’s like trading a house for another house. If you trade happiness with anything else you will discover that the thing you receive will not make you as happy as owning happiness. When someone trades happiness with you they do not give it you into your hands they put it into your heart, most of the times we do not notice it. When someone loves you so much it is because they have stored their greatest treasure inside you so they will cherish you and keep you. A connection exists where two people have similar portions of happiness which they have traded because to them it is the most natural thing to do. Each portion of happiness is unique but it has a twin. If someone says they love you but have not put their happiness inside your heart sooner or later you will see that they do not treasure you or you will sooner than later discover that there is no connection between the two of you.. If you have your portions of happiness, trade them with someone who will give you the perfect identical portions of their happiness that way you will never be short of happiness or miss your portion. ”

In life we have five portions of happiness. One for the family we come from, one for our children, one for our Mr. / Mrs. Right, one for our God and the other for our own heart to keep out hearts beating. So when you look at your life, think of your portions of happiness and if you have ever received any from the people around you or have you traded them for objects which cannot give you happiness. Food for thought.  Jane was grateful to now know this when at least she had two portions of happiness left. So Jane went back to earth to start a new life and new journey………To Be Continued.

Winston is the author of several books. His breakthrough book was “You Have All Been Fooled”, a book about power, ability, and sheer determination in life. Winston’s books are available on the following
You Have All Been Fooled at Amazon
You Have All Been Fooled at Author’s Page
Four Reasons Why Absolute World Peace is Impossible With Humans
The Spark of Life, Success and Relationships
The Book of Revelation Series

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Emotions Like A stone

April 20, 2010 Leave a comment

Stones may seem silly some times. Imagine lying in the face of a storm, hurricane, snow, heat, rain, sunshine, cold, war, peace and all kinds of environments. Lying still like nothing happened yet in front of the stone a lion may just be killing its prey, a missile has just exploded close by, a flood is on its way. Through out it all the stone looks emotionless and lifeless, but it does achieve its objective which is to exist. We have no idea what is going inside it yet when we see it we just think that the stone is a stone. Sometimes life demands a stones attitude. When a curve ball is thrown your way, or life looks like hell, just be in yourself and be like a stone. I suppose that is why we have the phrase stone faced.

Winston is the author of several books. His breakthrough book was “You Have All Been Fooled”, a book about power, ability, and sheer determination in life. Winston’s books are available on the following
You Have All Been Fooled at Amazon
You Have All Been Fooled at Author’s Page
Four Reasons Why Absolute World Peace is Impossible With Humans
The Spark of Life, Success and Relationships
The Book of Revelation Series

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It is not Easy

April 20, 2010 Leave a comment

Think of all the things that you believe are easy. It could be riding a horse, driving a car, eating food, smiling, loving someone, praying, writing an article, reading this article or simply just keeping quite. In its own right it is easy or is it? Everything which is easy today is hard at some point. Think about it, is it easy to smile when your world is falling apart, is it easy to drive if someone just banged into your car, is it easy to pray when nothing seems like it is ok? It is not easy but it can be done. When it is hard just remember that in different circumstances it is easy. Your solution when facing something hard is just to think of when it is easy and remember that it is only hard because of the situation but not because it is. All things are easy in different circumstances. Do not let the circumstances determine what is easy and what is not. What is easy is easy. There is nothing difficult in the world, it is just the circumstances which make it not easy, otherwise it is easy.

Winston is the author of several books. His breakthrough book was “You Have All Been Fooled”, a book about power, ability, and sheer determination in life. Winston’s books are available on the following
You Have All Been Fooled at Amazon
You Have All Been Fooled at Author’s Page
Four Reasons Why Absolute World Peace is Impossible With Humans
The Spark of Life, Success and Relationships
The Book of Revelation Series

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Happiness is just a heart beat away

April 12, 2010 Leave a comment

The body releases endorphins in times of positive energy which gives you a natural high of happiness. Ever noticed the feeling you get when your team wins or you get what you wanted after a long time. Your heart beats happily in a stress relieving way and you feel so happy. We have been told to listen to our heads because our hearts will get us in trouble yet it is the exact opposite. Your happiness is based on your heart beat and the more you are unhappy the more you feel suppressed inside. Endorphins are released when you run, eat chocolate, laugh, watch a good movie, relax in the sun, listen to music you like, when you take a risk and simply when you are in a happy situation. The benefits are that you will feel less hungry, less stressed, less pain and you boost your immune system which also increases your life span. Happiness is in a heart beat. If you want to be happy then make sure you are in the right place, are doing what you really want, are with the person you love, are achieving your dreams, and simply put, you are happy. Happiness is literally a heart beat away. If the heart is consistently unhappy then diseases such as heart diseases, Blood pressure, cancers, and all sorts will come. Look at your self well, is your heart beat bringing you happiness.

Winston is the author of several books. His breakthrough book was “You Have All Been Fooled”, a book about power, ability, and sheer determination in life. Winston’s books are available on the following
You Have All Been Fooled at Amazon
You Have All Been Fooled at Author’s Page
Four Reasons Why Absolute World Peace is Impossible With Humans
The Spark of Life, Success and Relationships
The Book of Revelation Series

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