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Mr and Mrs Right

June 30, 2010 2 comments

Mr. and Mrs. Right serve as fuel for each others aspirations. Their combination is like the seeding of the clouds to make it rain. They balance each other like the perfect garden of love. Each sees things with one eye and when they are together they see both sides of the story. They hear everything together and understand it when they put their views together. They collect diverse data and create a single form of information together. Mr. and Mrs. Right are like the inspired story of love that never ends because they are each others wells of strength. They are like twin stars that shine together at all time. In the face of adversity they are like the bow and arrow, together forming an awesome weapon. Their love is permanent, when it is day they are the sun full of light, when it is dark they are like the moon ever present and defiant against the odds. Mr. and Mrs. Right remind me of the lovely rainbow after a storm, they bring beauty into diversity. You can search the desert for a greater love but Mr. and Mrs. Right are like the oasis that keeps its place when all else around it is dry. They are a fairy tale that should be called the “righttale”. They have seasons of the year but are the same year. Mr. and Mrs. Right are the perfect cell phone, always having network to true love. Good morning Mrs. Right this is just another letter from Mr. Right. Lots of Love.

Winston is the author of several books. His breakthrough book was “You Have All Been Fooled”, a book about power, ability, and sheer determination in life. Winston’s books are available on the following
You Have All Been Fooled at Amazon
You Have All Been Fooled at Author’s Page
Four Reasons Why Absolute World Peace is Impossible With Humans
The Spark of Life, Success and Relationships
The Book of Revelation Series

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Sources of Pain, Hurt and Failure

June 30, 2010 Leave a comment

Quantum physics has an interesting observation in that if you look at the lowest elementary existence depending on what you are expecting to see you will either see a particle or wave. In other words if you observe the element believing that the it looks like a particle you will see a particle and if you observe expecting to see a wave you will see a wave. Life is like that.

Most of us see what we want to see or what we have been told exists, for example if you were told that the food at a certain shop is very bad and the waiters are very slow you will definitely see it. You can be told that seventy percent of new businesses fail, when you go into business with this in mind you will see your business as part of the seventy percent.

In a relationship people get hurt because in the first instance they saw what they wanted. For example, people know what they want and sometimes they meet something that is close to what they want but is not exactly what they want. Instead of seeing this they then see what they want to be able to see. When the relationship ends they start telling you all the bad things about the relationship because now they see the bad side of things. You can tell people the truth and they will always see what they want to see, so all you do is tell them and wait for the tears and clean up. It is the same with gossip, people just see signs of what they would like to see and then stories spread like wild fire. Unfortunately once you burn something it takes time to grow it back, especially reputation.

Failure usually comes not because we are not able but because we prefer to have failure more than success. Subconsciously most people prefer being poor and not rich. Being a success comes with a few responsibilities or rather it comes with going where you have never gone before or doing what you have never done before. For example if Bill Gates had not had the audacity to envision Microsoft when every one else was saying computers are just a dream then where would the world be. Imagine that someone actually said at the time that world market could only accommodate five computers.

What most of us do not realize is that everything we want already exists and is just waiting for us to either make the effort to get to it or discover it. Instead we prefer to think life as the unknown because it makes us feel safer to think that the world is unpredictably so that we have an excuse not to have the courage to achieve the greatest we can in life. End of Part One.

Winston is the author of several books. His breakthrough book was “You Have All Been Fooled”, a book about power, ability, and sheer determination in life. Winston’s books are available on the following
You Have All Been Fooled at Amazon
You Have All Been Fooled at Author’s Page
Four Reasons Why Absolute World Peace is Impossible With Humans
The Spark of Life, Success and Relationships
The Book of Revelation Series

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Taking Stock

June 29, 2010 Leave a comment

Another time has passed and where are you? What have you achieved and what do you hope to achieve? You set out your goals or maybe you did not. Are you sure you are where you want or you are doing what you really want? Be honest and let the truth be told. Is your life achieving anything or are you caught up in the everyday hassle of life? Did you buy something for yourself or for anyone? How do we measure your success so far or are you just another person we can forget?

 It is time to count your life stock. Count your tears and your joys. Remember your achievements and your challenges. Get up in the morning and be honest with life. Life is interesting is it not? Is the stock of your life so far useless to you or its just another carrot race which never ends. Are you tired or refreshed? Do you look forward to the day or tomorrow? Do you have fond memories of yesterday and do you feel challenged to make today better than yesterday? Look at you wardrobe, are you still wearing the same clothes as two years ago or you have something new now? What car are you driving is it the same one we saw you with five years ago? What big thing have you done this year in which you can truly say, ye I achieved something? Take stock.

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Gladiators

June 29, 2010 Leave a comment

Life throws us many options and many possibilities. It is easy to get lost in all the drama and excitement of things and forget what you really want. You can wake up one day and realize that this is not want you wanted, that the life you are living is not the one. Somewhere along the line we get side tracked by so many events which may not be in our control. No one can tell you that life will always be fine, but what we can say is that in life no matter what happens never forget what you want. No matter how dark it gets, or how hopeless it may be always remember what you want.

Life calls for gladiators, people who when they are wrongly placed in a situation will fight as hard as they can or look for the best way out, simply because they never forget where they came from. So when you wake up, think about what you are doing, is it really what you want?

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Playing with Fire

June 22, 2010 Leave a comment

It is funny how we ignore the truth about what we really want and pretend like it is not important or like we can survive without it. We like to think that we can ignore it for some time and our lives will still be alright. So when it comes to relationships, jobs, and dreams we compromise quite a bit and sometimes too much. The end result is that we are playing with fire.

When a fire starts it starts from a small spark, then it grows. The little things we think are not important to us are the same things which can quickly grow into that fire we do not like. Sooner or later we discover we are not in what we really want and we are not happy. There are sparks for good things and sparks for bad things. Every fire can be good or it can be bad. We have to be sure that the sparks we are seeing in our lives when they eventually grow will not cause us a destructive fire.

Look at your life, you will see that they are these little things we ignore and give excuses for yet they are important to us. If you are not getting it now why then do you keep thinking about it or hoping that it will come to you, it is because it is important. If it is important why then settle for less. Don’t play with fire you will get hurt because sooner or later that fire will grow and consume you.  It is easier to put out a spark than to put out a fire. If you understand fire then you know hey.

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Please Walk Away

June 16, 2010 Leave a comment

Before it is too late, please walk away. Life is like a domino game where you lay up the domino and each domino affects the next one such that you end up with a definite result. What you do today will affect your tomorrow, such that tomorrow you may not know but we have a good idea what is going to be like.

If you force yourself to have a baby with a guy you know is not good for you just because you have been sleeping with him your life will be unhappy, it is that obvious. If you marry a woman by compromise you will always be looking for something better. If you do not read for a test you will fail, if you do not pay for your electricity the power will be turned off. Life is a cause and effect, please walk away.

Look at your self and ask your self what it is that you really want in life. Be honest and assess where you are. Is this the place you always dreamed of as a kid? Is this the person you want to spend with the rest of your life? Is it worth being beaten up everyday by this man on a daily basis, is this your dream? Look at yourself and be true to yourself. Is this the career you always dreamed of? Are you happy spending the hours that you do at the office? Is there anything in your life which makes sense, which makes you happy or are you living a lie?

If you abort your baby tomorrow you will always think about it and suffer mentally for it because it will haunt you always. If you do not write that exam you might not get the qualification in time to apply for that job when it is advertised in the near future. If you keep sleeping with every girl you go out with you will soon be so confused you cannot recognize real love when it knocks on your day. Please walk away.

Life is a cause and effect, you reap what you sow in time. If you want to be happy in time then plan the things which at harvest time will be good for you. Water only the things which will grow to produce fruit for you. Do not waste you airtime calling people who are of no use to your future. Do not go to places which never increase your worth or gain you anything. Do not work in jobs which only stress you and cause you health problems. Do not engage a person who is not going to make you feel at peace or happy. Why are you wasting your time with relationships which make no sense to you? Please walk away, it is better to cry now than to spend a life time crying and trying to fix your entire life because of one mistake. I am your brother and I love you.

Winston is the author of several books. His breakthrough book was “You Have All Been Fooled”, a book about power, ability, and sheer determination in life. Winston’s books are available on the following
You Have All Been Fooled at Amazon
You Have All Been Fooled at Author’s Page
Four Reasons Why Absolute World Peace is Impossible With Humans
The Spark of Life, Success and Relationships
The Book of Revelation Series

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At The Moment Of A HeartBreak

June 15, 2010 2 comments

In life you will be laughed at, treated unfairly, cheated on, hated, talked about behind your back, underestimated, forgotten, heartbroken, alone, and all kinds of things. If there is something the weather teaches us it is that when it rains it pours.

It rains on the good and the bad, simply because nature, circumstances and life operates as it should. Two people can be out in the field and if a hurricane comes both will be blown away despite the fact that one is good and the other is evil that is just the way it is. In the times of an economic crisis everyone is just as exposed. If you do not want to be hurt in life then all you have to do is find another planet. We have a choice in life, to take it and do something about it or take it and cry about it.

Sometimes we have no choice but to go through a heart break, sometimes we have no control on things like people hating us, talking about us, forgetting us and just playing with our feelings. When this happens we need a different attitude. We need an attitude that picks us up when the going gets tough, a spirit of survival and abundance, a life of fight in us. When it rains it will pour.

Life is not for the weak at heart and mind, it is for those who when it rains do not cry about the rain but look for the way out. It is for those when they fight Goliath they do not just stab the guy but they cut off the head, it is for those ladies who just do not give water to a person but to his camels also, it is for those who do not take you half way but take you all the way, it is for those who do not wrestle for a few hours but wrestle for the whole night.

When it rains and pours don’t just stand there, if you have to run, run, if you have to fight, fight, for your own sake do not expect that someone else will come to your rescue, it is you who needs to stand up. It is all very nice walking around saying you are blessed, or saying you have the favor of the Lord, but it counts for nothing if you are not as wise as the serpent as it says. If you are too sensitive you will die sensitive, just another statistic. Fight for what is yours.

Winston is the author of several books. His breakthrough book was “You Have All Been Fooled”, a book about power, ability, and sheer determination in life. Winston’s books are available on the following
You Have All Been Fooled at Amazon
You Have All Been Fooled at Author’s Page
Four Reasons Why Absolute World Peace is Impossible With Humans
The Spark of Life, Success and Relationships
The Book of Revelation Series

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