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Look Beyond the Mirror

October 31, 2013 Leave a comment

Life tends to be a reflection of what we see or what we perceive. Depending on different aspects discussed in this article, then one can see the world or just one part of it. Our achievements then tend to be related to what we do with what we see in the mirror of life.

Any mirror that is before us has its properties and different aspects, however its view is limited to its position, cleanliness, shape, substance, size and the person looking into it. When one stands before the mirror your view of the world is through your eyes but also through what the mirror is able to show. A simple analogue is the review mirrors in a car, they will only show you as much as they can, depending on the same things noted (position, cleanliness, shape, substance, size, viewer) but does not mean they are showing you everything. So your decision in your driving might be correct or wrong, as they may be a blind side you don’t see, or the angle being used makes you think that the cars behind you are either slow or fast, or the mirrors can be so dirty you cannot make out how far any car is or even if it is there depending on the positioning of the mirror. This is the same in life.

In one way we see the world through people’s experiences or their presence. There is nothing wrong in that but then what we forget that these people are also just mirrors for which their reflection of the world is limited to their position in society, cleanliness of heart, shape in dealing with life, substance of things achieved, size of their ambitions and values. As much as their opinions are important, remember, beyond the mirror is a world full of many possibilities and even greater mirrors which can see even more.

In another way we tend to see the world through education, learning and programming. We are taught mathematics, history, languages, economics, sciences and arts of which these are mirrors which we then use to see the world. However we also must not forget that each of these subjects is but a limited mirror limited by the level of knowledge in discovery. In some cases the science is wrong, the history is biased, the languages are limited, the economics is not empowering, the mathematics is limiting and the arts is misleading. Education is good but it also is just a limited mirror. You must look beyond the mirror; some have gone beyond education to achieve great things.

Another mirror which we use is the mirror of headlines. Daily there is one headline or another which force us to rethink what we see in life. We hear rumors of wars and see evidence of it but this is not the full world this is but a part of it. When we are exposed to one set of news we tend to forget that they are other possible news that can exist or which can be made to exist. History makers are not people that live by headlines they are people that make the headlines. If you look through the headline mirror then be sure to be the one who is making the headlines.

The last mirror in this article but surely not the last mirror in existence is the emotions that we feel. Your emotions can be deceiving; the heart can be the greatest deceit of all, who knows what is in the heart? The thing is, sometimes your heart tells you to be angry in situations where you should not be, or to react in a situation where you should simply be responding. Some have quit their jobs, killed their spouses, robbed people, quit their dreams, married the wrong people, laughed when they should have kept quiet, spoke when they should have shouted, loved when they should have hated and the list goes on. Look beyond your emotions and you will achieve greater things.

Learn to look beyond the mirrors around you, you might just have more time than you thought you had or less time. Act quickly but there is an even greater mirror in life which is a secret to many. Which mirror is that you ask?
1Co 13:12 For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall fully know even as I also am fully known.

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Self Realization-Three Ways to Find Yourself

August 10, 2010 Leave a comment

My friend said that sometimes we ask questions to confirm what we know and the other times to find out what we do not know. Self realization is a journey which requires different directions in order to realize benefits which are agreeable to us. However in all the travels we still need to remember that the center of all our travels is our very existence because sometimes we can travel so far we forget why we travel.

Self realization is about knowing who you are and having an identity. It is about having an experience of our lives. So much is advertised about products, businesses, life and all other different aspects but nothing is ever talked about us. It is like everyone knows exactly what you need but no one really ever asks you what you want. The first thing about realizing yourself is knowing what you want. We are told of so many things of what we can become but very few people ever ask us, what we really want. We cannot realize ourselves if we do not know what we want from life.

The second thing in self realization is what are we doing which brings us to happiness? We spend most of our time doing so many things that we never really ask ourselves if what we are doing is worth our time or maybe we are just doing it because everyone is doing it. It is easy to fall into the crowd syndrome where you spend your life following the crowds then one day you wake up and discover that you never did anything in life which made you happy.

It is amazing how many things our brains can store. We know dates, money, figures, places, but in all this we forget ourselves. We forget that we are also there and we need to be taken care of, not by the world but by ourselves. There is nothing wrong in wanting to be happy. You are not selfish because you want to be happy. Life has so many things but the journey starts from the centre which is you heart. We can remember all the nice things in life and in our working places but if we forget ourselves we will never be happy.

 Self realization is like looking in the mirror and finally noticing yourself. Most of the times we just look at our lives but never really see ourselves, all we see is what we expect to see. We end up forgetting what we really look like and what really makes us happy. Anyone can be happy, it just takes a little bit of self attention once in a while.

Winston M is the author of the book “You Have All Been Fooled”

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