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The One Step that is Destroying You or Making You

For every person there is that one step that makes or breaks their potential for success in a certain period or window of life. The step is the critical point in life which defines what each and every person becomes in life.

Most people do not realize it but life is a product of reactions or rather chain reactions sustained over a period of time. It maybe a reaction in a moment but that moment is a period of time which defines the level of energy or life which will be used for the pursuit of objectives in life. The birthing of a child is a reaction of a sperm and egg, digestion is a chemical reaction, marriage is a reaction to perceived interest, business is a reaction to the needs of a community, the speed of a car is a reaction to the burning of the fuel, being saved is a reaction to hearing the word, politics is a reaction to laws and governance, wars are reactions to challenges, rain is a reaction caused by condensation and air masses. Whatever you want to think of is a reaction and chain reaction in time. There is one step in life which destroys or makes you.

In nuclear reaction there is a term called the critical mass; it is the smallest amount of material needed for a sustained nuclear chain reaction. In that state according to Wikipedia “there is no increase or decrease in power, temperature or neutron population”. The critical mass of a fissionable material depends upon its nuclear properties, its density, its shape, its enrichment, its purity, its temperature and its surroundings. The same applies to life and nature, there is a critical mass in our lives in which when we arrive to it we make critical decisions that affect us forever. It might be that decision to start business with a partner, a decision to change careers, a decision to have a baby, a decision to divorce, a decision to leave one’s country or simply a decision to drink and drive. Whatever decision it is whether seeming small or big, will affect us forever such that our lives become a nuclear chain reaction sustained over a period of time based on that one step. For example if you decide to have a child today, it means your entire life is governed to ensuring that your child also has a good life. It will affect the career, the pass time you have, the friends you make, the sacrifices you make and the quality of life you have. Your life becomes a wholesome chain reaction to adopt to the new sustained reaction. For some it may be a good idea for some it could be a bad idea, it all depends on what you intend to be in your state.

The critical mass in nuclear reactions depends on its nuclear properties as well as its environment. This includes things like density, shape, enrichment, purity and temperature. In the same way most of our decisions are governed by the same properties. Our ignorance or knowledge is like our enrichment, the lack of knowledge can result in us making stupid or rushed decisions which affect us forever. The shape we are in terms of how we think in a positive or negative way can result in us destroying our lives or not. Our purity is basically our confidence in what we believe in, the lack of faith in what we want to achieve can lead to a double minded mind thus result in us failing in what we want to achieve. Our level of tolerance and compromise is like the temperature, which can result in making decisions when angry or simply making decisions with a cool head. Everyone’s density is simply their ability to be deep in life, to be open and allow for great wisdom to be their guide in life, unfortunately very few people have that. Our environment is what we choose to listen to or let influence us, no matter what environment you are in you still have a choice in what should or should not influence you. Then finally the spiritual substance of your make up will always determine how far you go in life.

The critical mass of any substance can be altered by simply changing such things as temperature, density, fuel and other factors. In other words you might have made that one step that changed your life forever; you can still make another step that changes your life forever also. What you need to do to that is simply change the variable such that they are at the right levels to change your life in another direction. For example you can increase your knowledge, or you could use what is called a tamper. In a bomb the tamper is that which surrounds the core of the material which is in nuclear reaction, hence the tamper increases the efficiency of the reaction. In life sometimes finding the right partner can change your life so much that your old life can seem like a story in the past. Changing the way you think or compromise can result in you making the right step that will forever redefine your life. Never look at your life as if it has ended, unless if you are dead, there is still hope, all you need to do is change a few variables and make the right step that takes you to a sustained reaction in life.

There is one step that leads you to success, and there are so many steps out there to choose from. Your one step can be in business, career or just partnerships. Don’t be afraid to make that step, reach for your critical mass and just do it. God has a plan.

Winston is the author of several books. His breakthrough book was “You Have All Been Fooled”, a book about power, ability, and sheer determination in life. Available on the following
You Have All Been Fooled at Amazon
You Have All Been Fooled at Author’s Page
Winston’s other books include the following
Four Reasons Why Absolute World Peace is Impossible With Humans
The Spark of Life, Success and Relationships
The Book of Revelation Series

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  1. Nathan Banda
    February 1, 2012 at 6:08 am

    It’s an insightful piece of writing that highlights “actions and reactions” that we take for granted in our day-to-day living. I think our preoccupation with our daily grind and survival obliterates our ability to stop, step back and reflect on what we intend to do to reach for success. All the same, this is enlightening and gives me an opportunity reorient my bearings with regards to achieving that success. Thanx Winston.

    • Winston M.
      February 1, 2012 at 8:38 am

      Hi Nathan, thanks for reading teh article and for your views also. Really helpful

  2. Maria Taverna
    February 1, 2012 at 6:14 am

    I agree with you and life itself is based on decisions and reactions that everyone needs to make in order to achieve their goals. Great article. Continue writing since I love your thought of life.

    • Winston M.
      February 1, 2012 at 8:37 am

      Thanks Suzana, i completely agree with you life is based on reactions and decisions.

  3. Célia Uate
    February 1, 2012 at 7:33 am

    Interessante. Vou repensar as minhas decisões e passar a tomar decisões mais acertadas para contornar as menos acertadas.

    • Winston M.
      February 1, 2012 at 8:36 am

      Muito Obrgido, Deus Tem um plano.

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